Sanctuary

I dwell in a forest of oak and pine
Where deer trails converge to a single line
That leads to a spring and a pond beyond.
Each night I drift off to peaceful sleep with ease
As Nature plays a rustling breeze
Through the scrubby brush and the tops of trees.
And I awaken each morning to the cardinal’s trill
With a lifted heart and a silent thrill
In knowing I belong to such beauty and grace
As the forest of oak and pine in this place.

I transverse the thoroughfares of working life
Amidst a jungle of concrete and steel, where
So much energy is wasted in the busy-ness and strife
Of productive occupation;
And where I am tossed in a roiling sea
Of mindless conversation.
I armor myself with competency and success
To blunt the blows and mute the stress of meaningless proliferation.

And at the end of a long, hard day,
I am more than glad to be on my way
Home to this forest of solitude and rest
That enfolds me in its loving breast
And fills my heart with home.

NeedleNerds meet on Monday, May 4th, from 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm

How are you all doing sheltering at home and social distancing?  I hope you are well and staying healthy during this COVID-19 pandemonium.  The last meal out that my husband and I enjoyed before we started sheltering at home was when we grabbed a quick bite at the IHOP on Douglas Boulevard!  If I had known at the time that we wouldn’t be back inside a restaurant for many weeks (perhaps months), I think we would have chosen a different restaurant that night!

We had our first ZOOM hosted NeedleNerds meeting in April. If you weren’t able to make that meeting, here’s another chance for you to attend.  We’d love to see you, find out what you’ve been working on, and hear how you are doing.

Our May meeting is this coming Monday, May 4th, from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm.

You can join the meeting by pressing the link below around 7:00 pm on Monday and then entering the password when you are prompted to do so:    

Date & Time: Monday, May 4th
Time: 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm

Join Zoom Meeting
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/8127710564?pwd=UmFsU0t3YzFhUGM0aGEzanY3NWcrdz09

Password: (email me for the password)


ZOOM Tips

If you haven’t already installed the ZOOM app to your smartphone, you can download the app by clicking one of the links below:

Android app: Download ZOOM app at Google Play store

iPhone app: Download ZOOM app at the Apple Apps Store

You can also log into the ZOOM meeting from a computer by pressing the meeting link provided above. After you press the link you will be asked to install and enable an add-in to the browser you use, once the add-in is installed, you should be able to connect to the meeting.

Here are some suggestions you can follow for this meeting:

  • If you are using a phone, make sure the phone’s battery is fully charged
  • Using a headphone might make it easier for you to hear the conversation (and will also shut out any other noises that might be going on in your house.
  • If you want us to see you, hold or place your phone fairly close to your face (arms length away is probably good) and have the lighting in the room in front of you (so the light illuminates your face). For example sitting  facing a window or lamp provides much better illumination of your face than sitting with your back to a window or lamp.
  • Hold the phone so you are looking straight or slightly down at the screen, rather than looking up at the screen (in which case we might be able to count all the hairs in your nostrils (LOL).
  • If you are participating inside your house, you might need to close the door of the room where you are to keep out any other noise (dogs barking, husbands talking, etc,)

 I’ve tested ZOOM out several times friends over the last month and I’ve played around with the app a bit and here’s what I’ve learned:

When you log into the ZOOM meeting by clicking the link above and enter the password when prompted to do so, you’ll see a screen that looks something like this one (that’s my picture 🙂 )

Please take note of the red “End” icon on the top right hand side of the screen, the white audio icon on the top left hand side of screen and the Mute, Start Video, Share, Participants icons that you see on the bottom of the screen.  These icons “hide”, so you may not see them on your screen.

If the icons are hidden, move your finger (if you’re on a phone) or mouse (if you’re on a computer) towards the top or bottom of the screen and they will pop up on the screen.

  • You can adjust the volume by tapping the audio icon on the top right hand side of your screen
  • If no-one can hear you, tap the Mute icon to unmute the audio (if your audio is muted, the mute icon will have a line across it)
  • If no-one can see you, tap the Start Video icon so we can see you (in the screenshot, the line across the Start Video indicates that my phone’s video is turned off)
  • If you are using a computer, and the computer doesn’t have a video cam, you won’t be able to turn the video on.
  • To leave the meeting, tap END, found in the top right hand corner of the screen.

Meet Charlotte

Charlotte joined our family on Saturday when Raven and I drove to a park in Lawrenceville to meet her.

She’s a happy, sweet girl who is currently unspayed and has poor household manners (think 5 month old puppy in a 70 lb big dog body).

We have a lot of training ahead, but Raven likes her and Bert will come around…eventually.

We hope to get her spayed ASAP.

Loss

Almost 13 years ago, my sweet Gracie came to live with me.

At the time I was mourning the loss of Winnie, the American Eskimo dog that lived with us for almost 16 years. It was the first time in my adult life that I had been without a dog and I was so lonely.

I had been spending time pouring over rescue group and humane society websites, and I saw a picture of her on Craigslist. She looked perfect to me, so I responded to the listing and the very next day I drove to the North Georgia mountains to meet her.

I’ve always let my animal companions choose me, but she didn’t want anything to do with me. I assessed her current situation…her owner wanted to be rid of her as soon as possible and would sell her to the first person who showed up with his asking price ($100). Even though she didn’t show any interest in me, I knew I would provide her with a good home, so I decided to take her home with me. She was so attached to her current owner and confused when he forced her into my car. As we drove away, she sat in the passenger seat with her back to me and her face pressed against the window. I patted her and told her it would be alright, but my reassurances were unacknowledged. She was scared, confused and devastated.

I wasn’t sure how Gracie would do that first night. She was uncomfortable in the house, with me and she was stressed out and so confused. I didn’t want to disturb Mark’s sleep, so I slept on the couch where I could be near her and keep an eye on her. She finally settled down on the living room floor and I drifted off to sleep. Sometime during the night I woke up, opened my eyes and Gracie was sitting directly in front of me, close, studying my face. I could see the questions in her eyes, “Who are you? Why am I here? Am I safe?” That was the moment I fell in love with her. It took her a little longer to fall in love with me.

Those early days were difficult and heart breaking, but slowly, ever so slowly, she adjusted, started to trust me, became comfortable in her new home. It took quite a few more months for her to get comfortable with Mark.

Once she got comfortable with me, she stuck close to me like velcro. She became my most devoted, loyal, best friend and she loved me unconditionally. She would be laying across the room from me and I would see her steal a quick glance back at me. If she caught me looking back at her, she would raise her head higher and her expression would change to bright alertness. When we would go for walks she would walk ahead of me with her tail high and a confident spring in her step. She was proud to be my girl and I was honored to be graced with her love and confidence all these years.

Over the last year, she slowed down and started showing her age. Her beautiful chocolate coat became mottled with silver on her face, her haunches, her feet. Our daily 3 mile walks became shorter and slower. And her play ended after only 3 runs for the ball.

In June we noticed a change in her appetite. Even after many trips to the vet and despite offering a wide variety of flavorful foods and goodies her appetite continued to diminish. The vet prescribed an anti-depressant in the hopes of stimulating her appetite. We were so hopeful that the drug would jumpstart her appetite but it never did. She choked down the food I cooked for her, often to only throw it up a few minutes later. She got thinner and thinner. She started stumbling around, was restless during the night. When she started having seizures, we decided we had to let her go.

Gracie died on July 27th. I can hardly think of her without my throat tightening, my eyes welling up with tears. Her loss has been overwhelming and ever present. Even now, two months later. I cry most every day. My grief is the only downside of having loved her. I miss her so much.

My other dog Raven misses her too. When Gracie was alive, Raven enjoyed spending time with her. She followed her all around the yard, as Gracie checked her favorite stumps and digging spots. Raven snuggled up to Gracie every night and would often lick her awake in the mornings.

But since she has passed, Raven hasn’t been so keen about going out into the woods to explore their favorite stumps and holes. All of the holes and stumps that were a source of obsession and entertainment have been neglected. When I go to work now I have to lead Raven into the dog pen with a leash and a treat. Last week when I made a quick trip to the grocery, she climbed out of the fence and greeted me as I returned down the driveway.

As we have done with all of the beloved pet companions that we’ve lost, we buried Gracie in the woods on our property in the small pet cemetery we established when our first dog, Muffin, died. The cemetery is where Muffin (American Eskimo), Jubilee (cat), Phoebe (cat), Missy (mixed breed dog), Winnie (American Eskimo), Mama & Handsome (cats) and Milo (rat terrier), several rabbits and now Gracie are buried. In the years the cemetery has existed none of the graves have ever been disturbed until now. Two times Mark has had to shovel soil back over Gracie’s grave, he is sure that Raven has dug at the grave both times. She saw us bury Gracie so she knows that Gracie is there.

Mark finally laid some rocks, wire and logs over Gracie’s grave to discourage any further digging and that seems to be working but Raven still disappears into the woods from time to time to linger at her grave.

Gracie was my special girl – a once in a lifetime kind of dog that can never be replaced. In the first couple of weeks after she died I thought I would wait for the universe to bring me another dog. But now I think Raven really needs a new companion so I’m putting it out there…..I hope to find another young (<= 3 years old) female, blonde or chocolate lab that won’t go crazy around cats…. no dog will ever replace my Gracie, but I have room in my heart and home for another pup.

Rest in peace sweet girl. I sure love and miss that beautiful face and those soulful eyes.

Gracie 12/26/2004 – 07/27/2019

African Violets in Bloom

Here are four varieties of the African Violets that I propagated from leaves that are currently blooming.

This is a Ness’ Blueberry Puff. It’s been blooming for several weeks.

Two “Cajon’s Cherished Hope” African Violets. These were the first that bloomed and have been producing blooms for a couple of months.

An EK-Sady Semiramidy. What a lovely bloom! The bloom reminds me of the Sweet Shrub that blooms in early Spring.

Three Bishop African Violets that started blooming 2 weeks ago. Isn’t it interesting that two of the plants’ blooms are a light pink and the third plant has a darker bloom?

So, for now only four varieties of my African Violets have produced blooms and I have eight more varieties coming along. I’ll post pictures of those when they start producing blooms.

Out for a Night at Symphony Hall

Last Thursday I took my sister Lori & her wife Ellen to Symphony Hall to listen to the Indigo Girls. It was a great concert.

The first time I ever heard the Indigo Girls play & sing was at Little Five Points Pub in the late 1980s and I’ve been a fan ever since. I remember taking some out-of-town friends who were visiting to the Pub one night. The Indigo Girls were singing and the place was packed. It was a celebration of sorts because the Indigo Girls had just signed their first big record deal and everyone in the bar was happy, joyous and rocking along to the tunes.

Bert is doing great!

It was touch and go there for a couple of months, but those days are behind us now.

He’s been cancer free for a year and a half, has gained back most of the weight he lost, and he’s a very happy boy. He has adjusted well to not having a lower jaw line (his tongue doesn’t hang out of his mouth as the vet expected) and he enjoys his pureed food – he even has his own blender (the magic bullet had to be replaced since it was not up to the task of twice daily smoothies with a real blender) that is dedicated to the task.

African Violets galore

Last November I was inspired by an article I read to try my hand at growing some African Violets. Over the years I’ve tried to grow these lovely plants but I had never been successful. Every plant I tried to grow eventually died a slow withering death. So several years ago I gave up. I swore them off forever.

But the article inspired me to try again. The author made it sound so easy. I went to a couple of local stores to buy a few African Violets, but none of the stores had them. So I went online and ordered a sample pack of 12 different African Violet leaves from a grower on Etsy. When the sample pack arrived I planted each leaf in a plastic dixie cup, placed the whole bunch of planted leaves in two small plastic tubs and set them on my kitchen counter under the under-counter fluorescent light. (You’ll see 20 leaves in the photos below because the seller sent me a few duplicates).

I watered them well and snapped the lids on the tubs. The tubs provided a nice, moist terrarium-like environment for the plants and because both the tub and the lid are translucent, the plants got plenty of light.

I left the fluorescent light on 24/7 and every couple of weeks I opened up the tubs to check the progress. For the first couple of months I didn’t see much of anything and so was skeptical that my effort would be successful.

Then, around the middle of March I saw some babies emerging from the soil around a few of the leaves.

A few weeks later, there were more babies and even a bloom!

By mid-April all the leaves had sprouted babies. After several weeks I transplanted most of the babies into one inch pots. Many leaves yielded more than one plant.

In June they were all growing and flourishing (I only lost one baby plant).

A few weeks ago I repotted the larger plants into larger pots (the picture below shows less than half of my plants).

You can see that some of the plants have started blooming and more buds are popping up every day. I’ve now got over 40 African Violets and three of the original leaves are still in dixie cups perhaps producing more baby plants.